What Is Permissive Parenting Style Like?

Permissive parenting style is characterised by the parent's high degree of warmth and responsiveness and lack of control of their child. The permissive parent sees themselves as their child's friend.

I Don't Do Punishment!

The permissive parent avoids punishment, it just makes them feel uncomfortable. They really need to be liked by their child and don't want to risk the child's rebellion and anger.

I Accept You

This mother totally accepts her child as she is, she has no expectations as regards behaviour. Whatever her child does is fine by her.

You're Great!

The permissive parent thinks her child is fine and will affirm him no matter how he behaves. Her acceptance is indiscriminatory.

What Do You Think?

The mother using the permissive parenting style will involve the child in discussions about family issues. She will consult with the child as to what she wants to do, eat, wear etc. The child is in the driving seat!

This Is Why....

This mother will always explain to the child the why of things, but will not push her way of thinking onto the child. She will go along with what the child wants.

Do What You Like

The child of permissive parents really has complete freedom. He calls the shots, and generally controls the household. Anything he says, goes!

I Don't Do Rules!

This mother doesn't expect obedience to external rules. She won't bother about a proper school uniform, if the child wants to wear trainers, she'll let him.

I'll Love You If.....

This parent is more likely to use reasoning and manipulation to get what they want but will back down if the child challenges them.

This style may be the result of being brought up by authoritarian parents and rebelling against that kind of regime.

Take a look at the Effects of Parenting Style page to see what the outcomes may be like for this parenting style.